Saturday, July 24, 2010

My Marlee Kay - #3

My Sweet Girl,
It's been three years since the first time we met. How is that even possible? For your birthday your Daddy and I decided it was time to convert your crib into a big girl bed. When I went in your room and saw it, I cried. Your Daddy came in and said to me that we have to let you grow up, and he's right, but does it have to be going by so fast? Some days seem endless, but the weeks, months, and years are fleeting.
So many things are already a distance memory. Like your Daddy and I trying for so many years to have you, and thinking that maybe it just wasn't in the cards for us; never knowing if I would hear someone call me Momma; being pregnant and so scared; feeling you inside me; your smooshed up little face and big feet when you entered into this big unknown world; your new baby smell, how I wish I could have bottled it; your Daddy being so protective of you when you were first born, even with me; you sleeping next to me all swaddled up; your gummy smile; learning to sit up, crawl, stand, walk, and then run on your own; the babbles turning into real words and conversations. And soon, right now - this moment, will be just that, a distant memory.
Make no mistake, my Marlee Kay, things have not always been easy with you; and I know this is just the beginning. You are so determined, precise, demanding, and temper mental. More days than not you test my patience, and there are nights when I look down at you and tell you tomorrow Momma will be more patient. Momma will not raise her voice to get you to listen, as I seem to be doing that more and more lately. Momma won't be too busy to get down on the floor and play with you, even if it is at 8pm and I am Momma'd out. The good news is you don't seem to hold a grudge. You love me. No matter what, it seems. <3
Yes, I do have to let you grow up. And everyday I am going to try to remember how lucky I am. You have made my world that much brighter, my beautiful girl, and I love you. No matter what.
Your Momma


diz2 said...

Such sweet words Angie. You such a good mom and a sweet and kind person.

Lesley Barr Photography said...

Ok, I'm already an emotional mess today and this just made me cry [again]. The times do pass too quickly and sometimes it is hard (especially after a rough day) to remember to enjoy the little moments. You are so very patient and loving with Marlee, she is so lucky to have you as you are to have her. You are very blessed. She is wonderful, sweet, quiet and loud, beautiful, smart, and amazing.

Janae said...

Such a sweet post!

Kristy said...

Sissy... you have such a way with words. You are so very blessed to have her as she is you! Being a momma is HARD, no one is perfect at it, but you are perfect for her! You understand her, you are so patient with her, you put her before you, you are both very very lucky!!
She is a determined, temper mental little thing... but she is also so so sweet & loving :)
I can not believe she is already 3!!

Maryann said...

you are such a sweet mama and she is so lucky to have you!